【罗12:19】亲爱的弟兄，不要自己伸冤，宁可让步，听凭主怒（或作“让人发怒”）。因为经上记着：“主说：‘伸冤在我，我必报应。’”【Romans12:19】Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord.

保罗教导我们不要以恶报恶，总要尽力与众人和睦。Paul teaches us not to repay evil with evil but to strive to live in peace with everyone. 然而面对冤枉、委屈、不公义的事情，天然人的本能反应是受不了委屈，一定要争辩、分诉：不是这样的！However, when faced with injustice, false accusations, or unfair treatment, our natural instinct is to resist being wronged. We feel the need to argue and defend ourselves, saying, “It wasn’t like that!” 遇到被恶待，就想讨回公道，站在审判官的位置上，愤怒、仇恨，想着怎么去报复，When treated unfairly, we seek justice, placing ourselves in the judge’s seat, filled with anger and hatred, thinking of ways to retaliate. 却让自己成为受害者，活在苦毒之中。Yet, in doing so, we become victims ourselves, trapped in bitterness.

经上记着：“主说：‘伸冤在我，我必报应。’”惟有神才是惟一的审判官，祂必照各人所行的按公义施行审判！It is written: “The Lord says, ‘Vengeance is mine; I will repay.’” God alone is the one true Judge, and He will judge everyone righteously according to their deeds! 大卫、约瑟，没有自己伸冤，宁可让步，听凭主怒，把审判的主权交给神！David and Joseph did not seek vengeance for themselves; instead, they chose to yield, leaving room for God’s wrath and entrusting judgment to Him.  神的公义有时没有立刻彰显，因神在训练我们有祂的品格。因祂的怜悯，给我们悔改的机会。God’s justice is not always revealed immediately because He is shaping us to have His character. In His mercy, He gives us the opportunity to repent.

这个世界最大的不公义，是神的儿子耶稣被鞭打，被羞辱，被钉死，The greatest injustice in this world was that the Son of God, Jesus, was beaten, humiliated, and crucified. 他并没有犯罪，口里也没有诡诈。He had committed no sin, nor was there any deceit in His mouth. 他被骂不还口，受害不说威吓的话，只将自己交托那按公义审判人的主。When He was insulted, He did not retaliate; when He suffered, He did not threaten but entrusted Himself to the One who judges righteously.  最终，父的公义彰显，耶稣从死里复活，完全得胜。In the end, the Father’s justice was revealed—Jesus rose from the dead and triumphed completely. 最不公的审判却成就了永恒的救恩。因这爱，我们被赦免，被救赎。The most unjust judgment accomplished eternal salvation. Because of this love, we are forgiven and redeemed.

主啊，你在最委屈的时候，没有丝毫怨言，最痛的时候，还为罪人代求…Lord, in Your deepest suffering, You had no complaint; in Your greatest pain, You interceded for sinners. 我正觉得委屈、冤枉、心中翻腾不平时，正是我越权做审判官的时候，Yet when I feel wronged, misunderstood, and restless in my heart, it is because I have taken the judge’s seat, overstepping my place. 你没有立刻审判我，你赦免了我一千万银子，我岂能抓着别人的十两银子不放？You did not judge me immediately, but instead, You forgave my debt of ten thousand talents—how can I then hold onto another’s debt of a hundred denarii? 主，我愿选择饶恕、放手，求主怜悯施恩，使我活出爱，与仇敌和好，荣耀你。Lord, I choose to forgive and let go. Have mercy on me and grant me grace, that I may live out love, be reconciled with my enemies, and glorify You.（付传道Pastor Fu）